Roll up your sleeves again, here I go
So I am going to be doing this once a week, and no, it's not because I think the people who need help are the people who need attention. I just like to repeat myself until the idea is blazed into the retinas of the readers.
The people who need help, they need it, and they APPRECIATE ANYTHING that is given to them. Why? Well for starters, most of them want to just vent or ask for advice or hell both. They also have a good idea that this is the internet (it ain't fuckin rocket science folks). People who are willing to help those in need are most likely on the other side of the world or the other side of the country or on the other side of the state (region), or are on the other side of the city. They get the hint: people who are willing to help can only do what they can do and that's to say everything is okay, that they are there to get you through the vent and make you feel better. Even offer you advice based on their own (probable) experiences.
I have no fume for the attention whores in this post. I just figure complaining about people complaining about their own petty dramas WHILE either (a) ignoring those who give a flying fuck to read one's troubles and try to help one through it OR (b) verbally abusing those who would try to help oneself.
THAT is the difference and it's the ladder people who should be burning their retinas on the crap that I am typing for this post. NOT everything is about the dramas that one faces. This is a HUGE place we live in, with BILLIONS upon BILLIONS of people living here and each with their own good times, bad times and ugly times. Expect those that do give a enough heart to say "It'll be all right." and "I'm here to listen." to do only that and live with their lives. They can't fly to one's world, give one 5 billion dollars, a wonderful loving home or whatever else might be "needed".
Type it, vent it, read it, type it, read it, vent it, repeatů